when holding it all together stops working

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Jessie Withers, MA
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist #155028
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor # 19353

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You’re not too much. You’re not broken.

Personalized Therapy That Reaches Beyond the Surface Using EMDR, IFS and Somatic Integration

Welcome to therapy with Jessie

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Do you feel like you're drowning?
Do you look at your life or your relationships and wonder how things got like this?

You don’t need another cardboard-cut-out-therapist who just sits there nodding at you.
You need a real, authentic healing relationship with a therapist who offers insight to help shift what’s been running your life.


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I’m a Trauma-Informed EMDR and IFS Associate Psychotherapist based in Southern California. My clinical training is in trauma and relationships, but what I bring to therapy goes beyond credentials.
I bring myself.

I’m a fellow trauma survivor, newly minted member of the bereaved community (not fun btw), am an only child, and your friendly neighborhood Canadian!

I grew up learning how much relationships matter, both when they nurture and when they wound. These experiences fuel my passion for helping clients untangle what’s been stuck in order to help them build something new and more authentic.

Healing doesn’t have to look like perfection, it looks like becoming more fully, unapologetically yourself.

If you’ve felt unseen, unheard, or like no one really “gets it”...


That’s where I come in!





P.S. 
Your animal friends are always
welcome
in session!

 Jessie Withers MA,
AMFT#155028, APCC# 19353
 Supervised by Sarah Iaccarino, LMFT #128686

she/her/hers

I'm jessie

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The therapist behind the work

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  • M.A. in Clinical Psychology, Antioch University Los Angeles
  • IFSCA -Level 1 Stepping Stones -Internal Family Systems (IFS) 
  • IFSCA -Level 2 Stepping Deeper -Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • ICEEFT- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Externship
  • EMDRIA-Approved EMDR S.A.F.E. Training for Trauma Resolution
  • Somatic Experiencing International Foundations
  • The Vancouver School of Narrative Therapy
  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) 
  • M.A. in Clinical Psychology, Antioch University Los Angeles
  • IFSCA -Level 1 Stepping Stones -Internal Family Systems (IFS) 
  • IFSCA -Level 2 Stepping Deeper -Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • ICEEFT- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Externship
  • EMDRIA-Approved EMDR S.A.F.E. Training for Trauma Resolution
  • Somatic Experiencing International Foundations
  • The Vancouver School of Narrative Therapy
  • Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) 

Education, Credentials, and Trainings


We cut through the noise so you feel relief, clarity, and connection faster.

DIFFERENT

What Makes This therapy 

Science-backed
Nervous-system attuned
Personalized & tailored processing
Results-focused

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We cut through the noise so you start to feel relief, clarity, and connection.

DIFFERENT

What Makes This therapy 

✔ EMDR for trauma resolution
✔ IFS therapy for emotional healing + self-leadership
✔ Somatic tools to ground and regulate the body
✔ Relational work to restore connection and trust

✔ EMDR for trauma resolution

✔ IFS therapy for emotional healing and self-leadership

✔ Somatic tools to ground and regulate the body

✔ Relational work to restore connection and trust

Science-backed
Nervous-system attuned
Personalized & tailored processing
Embodied emotional healing

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THE PROCESS

UNDERSTAND THE PROCESS

  • Trauma-Informed tools like EMDR to help your nervous system release what your mind alone can’t “think” away.

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) to help you care for the protective and wounded parts of yourself.

  • Relational Healing or Couples Work to untangle cycles of disconnection and rebuild trust, whether with yourself or your partner.

  • A therapeutic experience that’s real and genuine! You’ll have me in your corner for life, direct, compassionate, and invested.

In our work together, you can expect:

I don’t believe in
one-size-fits-all therapy.

Healing is personal.


- Steph B., Pasadena CA

I’ve done weekly therapy before, but this was the first time I felt like I had a therapist who knows me and cares about me.
Nothing is off the table. I'm forever grateful I found her.

What Clients Say About Therapy with jessie

“Working with Jessie is SO worth it!”

- Cameron, Westwood, CA

I feel like I can be myself with Jessie. Nothing is off the table. She never judges me (but she does make me laugh sometimes). I'm forever grateful.

"I actually look forward to therapy!"

What Clients Say About Therapy with jessie

- Ryan + Jordon, Ventura CA

We had been fighting more and more. We needed someone who could figure out the mess we had made. Jessie made a huge difference.  

What Couples Say About Therapy with jessie

"Honestly... we finally feel like 'us' again"

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EMDR
Sessions

When talking isn’t enough, EMDR helps your nervous system let go of what’s been stuck. These sessions process trauma so you can finally move forward with life.

Couples
Sessions

Couples therapy isn’t about blame, it’s about breaking the cycle together. You’ll learn to hear each other differently, and build back trust and intimacy.

Individual therapy gives you a space that’s just for you. It's a place to be fully seen, and work through what feels heavy to carry by yourself. 

Individual
Sessions

01.

Ways We Work Together

Three pathways to help you heal, grow, and reconnect with yourself or someone you love

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My Therapy Specialties

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01. Relational & Complex trauma

Old wounds can show up in the present through patterns, relationships, or the way you treat yourself.

In therapy, we’ll create a steady space to untangle those cycles and begin to build something new.

Old wounds can show up in the present through patterns, relationships, or the way you treat yourself.
In therapy, we’ll create a steady space to untangle those cycles and begin to build something new.

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02. COUPLES THERAPY

When you’re stuck in the same arguments or feel more like roommates than partners, it doesn’t mean it’s over. Couples therapy gives you both a safe space to slow down, repair, and reconnect.

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03. Internal family systems (ifs) aka 'parts' therapy

IFS, or parts work, helps you understand the protective and wounded parts inside you instead of fighting them. Together, we’ll bring compassion and clarity to the inner voices that shape your life.

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04. Eye movement desensitization reprocessing (EMDR)

Trauma doesn’t just live in your mind, it lives in your body. EMDR helps your system process what’s been stuck so you can finally feel safer, calmer, and more present.

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Getting Started

Taking the first step can feel overwhelming. That’s normal. My goal is to make it as easy as possible.
Here’s how it works:

Here’s how it works:

We’ll start gently, focusing on what feels most pressing, painful or stuck for you right now.

3 -First Session

Regular sessions give us the space to shift patterns to help you live with more clarity, calm, and connection.

4 -Ongoing Therapy

Send me a quick message or fill out the contact form. No need to have the “perfect” words.

1 -Reach Out

We’ll have a 30-minute Zoom call to get a sense of each other and see if we’re a good fit.

2 -Free Consultation

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